Veteran’s Day tribute

This flag display, which I saw on my morning walk, inspired me to go to the cemetery to visit my dad and to remember my two uncles, all of whom served overseas during wartime. My dad was a Tech Sgt. stationed in Italy and North Africa during World War II and his job had something to do with communications. I don’t know if he saw combat. If he had been in combat he probably wouldn’t have told me. Men in his generation didn’t talk about the war once they came home. Whatever happened he made sacrifices. He was in his early thirties and working happily in a full-time job when he enlisted. Quitting a job, taking a pay cut, living in crude quarters with a bunch of strangers, and having somebody boss him around at that age represent a certain amount of sacrifice.

The only photograph I have of my dad during that period is a black and white, 8″x 10″ glossy, showing him and another solider in uniform sitting on the same side of a bench in front of a table filled with dirty dishes, two partially empty wine glasses, and two empty wine bottles. Their smiles tell me they were happy. I always wondered if they were celebrating the end of the war. In any case, if my dad ever looked at the photo when he came home, he would have been reminded that some moments during the war weren’t bad.  I’m glad he served even if his four years away from home were difficult.  If he hadn’t, he wouldn’t have met my mom and I wouldn’t have been born.

My two uncles also served in World War II.  One was a carpenter who joined the Navy Seabees. He was part of a construction battalion sent to the Pacific to build military bases.  I don’t know where my other uncle served.  I just know that I have his Purple Heart, which means he was “wounded while serving with the U.S. military.”

Normally I don’t think about the meaning of Veteran’s Day or Memorial Day.  I’m thankful that the city thought to remind me and others through its beautiful display.

About stillalife

I retired June 30, 2010 after working for 40 years in the field of education and most recently doing school public relations/community outreach in a mid-size urban school district. I wrote for superintendents and school board members. Now I'm writing for me and I hope for you. In this blog, I offer my own views coupled with the latest research on how to preserve our physical and mental health as we age, delve into issues most of us over 50 can relate to like noticing wrinkles and forgetting where we left our keys, discuss the pros and cons of different ways to engage our minds and bodies after we leave the workplace, and throw in an occasional book review, all peppered with a touch of humor, irony, and just plain silliness. Also, I'm on the third draft of my second novel since retirement.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

1 Response to Veteran’s Day tribute

  1. Maggie L R says:

    It is good to remember.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s