Changing things up

After several years of staying close to home and establishing a Covid-induced weekly routine, what do you do when that regimen has become a rut, but spending time in clogged airports and tourist-choked cities doesn’t sound like fun?

Three months after recovering from Covid—my husband and I got it after everyone else–I decided it was time to change things up. No long trips, nothing thrilling, just something different.

We started easy. Instead of walking in our peaceful neighborhood, we took a walk through downtown. Getting dizzy at having to look up at so many skyscrapers, we threw out questions neither of us could answer. “How long has that building been here?” “Is the construction in that huge pit going to lead to housing or office space?” “Hey, I see the bakery someone recommended, but until now I didn’t know where it was.” 

After that short outing, we responded to a notice that our city was sponsoring several staff-led walks to other parts of town that had changed in the past few years. I signed us up for one walk to a former warehouse district that was becoming an expanded community of businesses–largely a Meta-opolis–plus housing. There, we saw more new construction we didn’t know existed and it was only a few miles from our house.

The next outing was to see friends who moved to a nearby island five years ago and who we were planning to visit in 2020 about the time Covid hit. This month, we invited ourselves to their house before learning that they were coping with serious illnesses among their adult children. They said we could come, but we struggled for a few days to decide whether the timing for an intrusion was right. We thought if we could do nothing else, we could provide them with a few hours’ distraction. The drive, wait for the ferry, and the boat ride took all of a day and evening, but we had a great visit and were glad we’d made the trip.

Last week, we went to a “Dino lecture” called, “Living Large: Life as a Sauropod,” not our usual Friday night fare and not a topic we’d been craving more information about, but we enjoyed the presentation and came away much better informed about this long-necked dinosaur formerly known as “brontosaurus.”

We’re also varying the settings for our regular walks, moving occasionally from a forest to a lake, which leads to a big change in scenery from flowers, trees, and deer to turtles, carp, and ducks.

We ended June with a lunch with friends in a waterside restaurant with a beautiful view.

What’s ahead for July?  We’re starting the month attending a music performance in one park and an hour-long tai chi class in another.

Nothing daring, nothing unusual,  just reminding ourselves there’s much to do close to home for which we are grateful. Maybe next year we’ll move farther afield after everyone else has gotten the travel bug out of their systems.

About stillalife

I retired June 30, 2010 after working for 40 years in the field of education and most recently doing school public relations/community outreach in a mid-size urban school district. I wrote for superintendents and school board members. Now I'm writing for me and I hope for you. In this blog, I offer my own views coupled with the latest research on how to preserve our physical and mental health as we age, delve into issues most of us over 50 can relate to like noticing wrinkles and forgetting where we left our keys, discuss the pros and cons of different ways to engage our minds and bodies after we leave the workplace, and throw in an occasional book review, all peppered with a touch of humor, irony, and just plain silliness. Also, I'm on the third draft of my second novel since retirement.
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4 Responses to Changing things up

  1. Sharon Howard says:

    Very encouraging. I’m very sympathetic and wondering why I no longer seem to be willing yo plan any trips — Europe or anywhere. Thank you.

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  2. Sharon Howard says:

    OOPS, that was “willing TO plan” any trip. One of my favorite activities in the past was to plan trips to Europe and to take them…now I don’t seem to have that interest. It bothers me that I don’t, but haven’t figured out why. Also, for first time in my life I think I have anxiety about leaving the house, driving, etc. Can’t figure out if I am experiencing anxiety or some residual from the pandemic. Whatever it is, it isn’t pleasant. That is one reason I am so grateful for you, Karen, Vicky and other friends who give me a reason to get out.

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  3. Darlene Bishop says:

    I so do love reading your blog—indeed, you are an inspiration. Keep it up—perhaps some day you could take me on one of your local adventures.

  4. Martha says:

    I recognize that rut. We were downtown last week for an appointment and noticed all kinds of changes since the last time we were there. And we ended up going for lunch on the waterfront on a gorgeous day. The appointment was the starter for that little venture and well worth it.

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